find your
match made
in hell.
the dating app that matches you on what you both hate. because nothing brings people together like mutual hatred.
hate tags
match tiers
match accuracy
how it works
three steps to finding someone who hates the same things you do.
pick what you hate
choose from 200+ hate tags across categories like food crimes, social sins, and workplace horrors.
get hate-matched
our algorithm finds people who despise the same things. the weirder the overlap, the better the match.
bond over it
skip the small talk. you already have something in common — mutual hatred. it's basically a love language.
why h8r?
everything wrong with dating apps, fixed.
real connections
no more generic "i love hiking" bios. match on what actually matters — your unfiltered opinions.
tiered matching
from mild to legendary — see how strong your hate-match really is. legendary matches are rare and 🔥.
prompt reactions
react to specific prompts on someone's profile. way better than a blank "hey" in the DMs.
campus verified
verify with your .edu email. see who's at your school. block your ex's entire friend group.
no algorithm games
no pay-to-be-seen. no hidden profiles. your match score is transparent and based on real compatibility.
want early access?
drop your email. we'll send you an invite code when it's your turn.
join the waitlistFAQ
yep. research from Bosson et al. (2006) at the University of South Florida found that shared negative attitudes toward others created closer bonds than shared positive attitudes. people who discovered mutual dislikes felt more like they "clicked" than those who shared likes. negativity bias is real — and we built a dating app around it.
the branding is fun, but the matching is real. underneath the edgy exterior is a serious algorithm that computes hate-match percentages, factors in proximity, and uses behavioral signals to surface your best matches.
when you sign up, you pick your top hate tags — things like "slow walkers" or "reply-all emails." we compare your tags with other users using weighted similarity scoring. the more obscure the overlap, the higher your match percentage.
free to download, free to hate. the free tier gives you 25 daily likes. h8r Pro and h8r Max unlock unlimited likes, undos, super hates, and advanced filters.
we're launching campus by campus. request your school in the app and we'll prioritize it. ambassadors get perks for bringing h8r to their campus.
absolutely. you can sync your contacts and we'll make sure you never see them. you can also block individual users at any time.
hate is a strong word.
use it wisely.
coming soon to iOS. free to download. free to hate.
coming soon — join the waitlist